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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 00:49

How does one succeed in life?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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That's it for today.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.